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THE MASOCHISM TANGO - By Jim Kent

This is the title of a song by the wonderfully demented genius Tom Lehrer, but it seems to fit

here and you can’t copyright titles anyway. Entirely too many people are beating themselves

up every day by getting outraged at the day’s — well, okay, outrages — being perpetrated by the

MuskRat and his uncomical sidekick, Mr. Tangerine Man. But getting outraged every day will

likely lead to a life that is both shorter and more miserable. The trick, as the Brits noticed in

The Big One, is to keep calm and carry on.


While there is essentially nothing we can do about the President or Vice until ’28, and not much

we can do about the Congress until ’26 except for the odd by-election and trying to scout out

possible winning grownup candidates, there are still several entirely legal and generally

effective ways to advance the cause. They do not work fast, though. It will be a slog.


The first step in getting through the next little while is to conserve energy. One way to do this

is to keep historic perspective. Remember what the Buddha said: “Nothing lasts forever.

Except the hockey playoffs.” The US has been through some very nasty times in the past and

emerged successfully, although not unscathed.


Try as they might, the crooks, cronies and crazies in the Administration can’t turn the clock all

the way back, and certainly not permanently and often not even temporarily. They will not be

able to restore slavery, or undo women’s suffrage, or restore the Good Olde Days when white

guys were completely in charge and their wives and children were regarded in law as property.

They can’t bring back coal, or reverse the death spiral of other fossil fuels. They appear to be

working hard to bring back illiteracy, but that won’t work either.


History doesn’t repeat itself, as Mark Twain is usually credited with saying, but it does rhyme.

Instead of a straight line, it’s an upward spiral, sometimes rapid and sometimes slow. Looking

down or back at any time, it may appear that we haven’t moved, but we have. In short, the

Make America Go Away movement will not succeed for quite a while. So, let’s all work on

remembering that.


In the long term, of course, history points out that no country gets to be the Big Kahuna for

more than a few hundred years anyway, no matter how fervently the leaders and the people

bang on about “forever” or “until the end of time.” The US has had a pretty good run, generally

doing more good than harm, but the writing has been on the wall (no, not that wall) for several

decades now. Within maybe a hundred years it will be somebody else’s turn. Trying to guess

who’s next is roughly as pointless as traveling back in time to ask the Wright Brothers what they

think about frequent flyer miles on Visa cards. So, as the Jefferson Airplane lyric reminds us, all

our angst and outrage “doesn’t mean shit to a tree.”


And that’s just the historical time frame. In the geologic one, it matters quite a lot less--and in

the astronomer’s view, even less than that. This doesn’t mean we shouldn’t do what we can

while we’re here but it does mean we can relax a bit. Mother Teresa can be helpful in this:

“We are not called to be successful. We are called to be faithful.” Taking a short course in

geology or astronomy or both can help to achieve and maintain that perspective.

For most of us, these philosophic ruminations may help a bit in preventing the onset of

madness prompted by the daily headlines, but I’ll bet not much. “What should I do today?” I

hear you cry.


The first thing to do is reduce the stress from the daily newsfeeds. When you’ve finished

reading any news story out of the Administration, tell yourself out loud it’s probably from The

Onion. This will not be a stretch. Even though you’ll know that’s not true, it will highlight the

absurdity of the situation, in the Beckett or Ionesco sense. Just because something is important

is no reason to take it seriously.


For more of a Marx Brothers flavour, check out the programs that allow you to change every

occurrence of a word in a document to a different word. I suggest Dumbo for the Leader Of

The Free World and Bozo (or if you want to go for a Reagan reference, Bonzo) for the MuskRat.

Reading that Dumbo and Bozo have said or done something dreadful will be less disturbing, and

you can read through it more quickly. You can also do this with lunatic cabinet officers,

governors and Supreme Court justices. You’ll find it doesn’t matter if you lose track of who’s

who. Nameless groups of Trump-worshippers can be Oompa-Loompas.


These little exercises will perhaps help you keep your breakfast down. For lasting relief, there

are longer-term solutions, modestly presented below.


A previous exciting episode suggested enrolling in a political party. More specifically now,

register as a Republican. In the US, unlike lots of other countries, this is simple and cost-free.

You don’t have to pay dues or go to meetings, and nobody will ever know how you’ve voted.

The major change in your life is that the election-time junk mail will come from Rs and not Ds.


But here’s something that’s achieved by this simple and painless device, and it works better the

more people we can recruit to do it: It will increase the percentage of enrolled Republicans in

the precinct or county, so over time the press will notice that the vote share of Rs is declining

even as their registered-voter share is increasing. Over time, if this happens in enough places,

the story can become that registered Rs are voting for Democrats. Grownup Rs, of which there

are still pockets practically everywhere although they’ve mostly gone underground, will begin

to wonder why, and the national party leadership will sooner or later decide to mend at least

some of their ways. This will take time, but should have noticeable effects.


For folks who live in a closed-primary state, only registered party members can vote in the

primary. That means they can vote for sane persons at that stage in the process. Some of these

will get the nomination and perhaps win in the general election. Even if those candidates don’t win, they will lose by smaller margins. One of the things big political donors watch is re-

election vote margins for winners. As margins start to go down, money eventually gets harder

to harvest. It’s erosion and not cataclysm, but erosion worked fine for the Grand Canyon.


By way of lagniappe, when we write letters about public issues we get to lead with “I’m a

registered Republican” and then proceed to eviscerate that party’s position on whatever the

issue is. This is emotionally satisfying, and it also makes grownup Rs realize they’re not alone,

while causing Democrats and others to suspect that not all Republicans are knuckle-draggers

and mouth-breathers. Opponents do not need to be enemies.


Registered members can also attend the party meetings in your precinct or county—what the

hell, even run for a precinct or county or state committee member slot--and try gently to inject

a note of sanity into the proceedings. The life of a mole can be interesting and occasionally

exciting, but in this arena, not dangerous. So sign up with the Devil’s spawn.


Meantime, we can help ourselves not to be paralyzed by the extensive array of casualties so

that we feel like there’s nothing we can do. The first instinct is to get on our horses and ride off

in all directions at once. However, it’s possible to keep busy with a utilitarian approach rather

than, shall we say, a futilitarian one. Instead of getting into a lather and feeling helpless, rank-

order the recent outrages you’ve heard about, with the top ranks going to those that will do the

most actual damage to the most people, and on down to those that will do relatively little

damage to fewer folks.


Develop and use your own criteria for this exercise; you can rank economic damage higher or

lower than psychic damage, and you can decide how deep to go into those suffering secondary

or indirect damage. But make a rank-ordered list, at whatever time interval you can stand.

Then periodically — daily or weekly or at whatever interval works for you — do something specific to help those affected by the two or three worst outrages. This may involve donating money or writing letters of support or of protest, or doing a Jimmy Carter and volunteering to do physical or other labour. But do something for those you deem most in need of immediate help.


If you’re going the Carter route, this is not a good time to announce that you are a registered

Republican, but it is appropriate to mention that you are working to mitigate the damage the

Republicans are doing. A lot of those victims, after all, voted R and might wish to switch next

time if reminded gently who caused their plight. Don’t dwell on the point or appear to blame

the victims, of course—a passing mention will assist the erosion.


Watch your language. Don’t refer to the incumbents as fascists, although that is palpably true,

or as conservatives, because that is palpably false. “Reactionaries” is accurate and effective,

because most people don’t know quite what it means but it sounds bad. “Plutocrats” and “fat

cats” also work for the officeholders but not mostly for their voters. The idea is to coax them

loose from the officeholders without accusing the voters themselves of doing anything wrong,

although they palpably have.


Ask questions, but don’t argue. “What did you think was going to happen?” “Why are eggs

getting more expensive instead of less?” “What’s your source for that belief?” The idea is not

to change anybody’s mind in a single conversation, but to help them begin to suspect that they

made a mistake.


Keep it concrete. If there is one thing we learned from this election — and there may not

Be — It’s that amurricans don’t care about abstractions like democracy and fairness and freedom and even common decency. They care about rents and egg prices and sales tax rates and job insecurity. These are not crazy or irresponsible things to care about, and people have personal knowledge about the immediate real-life effects of them. So we need to concentrate on that stuff — remember “It’s the economy, stupid”? Failure to do this is probably the worst single

strategic mistake the national Ds made last year. Let’s not keep it up.


However, the most important consideration in avoiding the Masochism Tango is indeed to keep

calm and carry on. If this situation gets reversed, it will not happen in the next election and

maybe not in the next generation. The battlefront is wide and deep, and progress will come in

inches and years, not in miles and days.


The story goes that once upon a time a Chinese emperor wanted some trees planted and one of

his minions said, “Well, they won’t be full-grown for two hundred years.”


“In that case,” said the emperor, “we’d better start immediately.”


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